Labor Day*

For most of the country, today is a day for BBQs and family gatherings. It's the day we close out summer and prepare for the next season - Fall! 

Today is that day for me too, but it's being celebrated with an asterisk. Today would have been Garrett's 33rd birthday. We talked over the summer about how we weren't going to wait till Labor Day to hang out, and how grateful we were for each other after all this time. Today, I remember the amazing friend I was blessed with for 15 years. The friend who never judged, never mocked, and never made me feel like I was beneath him. The friend who, while we didn't talk every day, respected our friendship and never lied to me. 

Since Garrett passed, I have tried my hardest to reconnect with friends I lost touch with over the years. I have been more in tune with how I react to things, how I interact with people. I try to enjoy more in every day - and just go with the flow. I am trying to let things roll off my chest easier, and focus my energy on what truly matters in my world. My circle has become a smaller ring, and I could not be happier with those that are left standing. 

The last 8 years have been years of growth. Slow growth, but still growth. There were plenty of obstacles along the way - heartbreak, sadness, anger - but I still muddled through. If you are feeling like you're stuck - what are you doing to fix it? How are you making the most out of your life? 

One thing I will always remember when I think of Garrett is his unbelievably positive personality. He was NEVER negative - always saw the best in every situation, regardless of how absolutely miserable it was. Everyone that talks about him talks about how he was such a great person, how he was an incredible friend. It's all true - he was a light in a dark world. 

I'm keeping this short today, because I have a day to enjoy and a great life to celebrate. I am sure I will have a few sad moments today, but I know it's a part of the healing process. I will be surrounded by some of the best people later today, who never judge or cause drama. They just love everyone where they're at. We should all try to do that - there's no need start problems when there isn't one, or judge others for their lives. 

Just live every day with a happy, open heart. Love those who love you, and don't bring negativity into your world. Smile more, accept people for who they are without expecting them to change. We are on this earth as different people for a reason. Embrace it, make the most out of your day, and keep going - especially when it's hard.