Let Me Tell Ya 'Bout My Best Fraaaans (Part 1)

Day 9 of 30

Today's topic is celebrating those closest to me, who make me the best version of myself! 

When your friends get promoted to best friends, you have to give them a shout out! I will not name these ladies by name, because I have decided to keep names out of my posts on here - privacy and such. 

Contrary to popular belief, you can have more than one best friend, and IT'S OKAY TO HAVE BEST FRIENDS. I know, breaking societal stereotypes. You are also allowed to do whatever the EFF you want with your life, so if you have people who can't support you, move on. 

So... without further ado... I will highlight my top 5 favorite people, with others to follow in another post later this month! 

BFF #1: I don't know where to begin with this one. We've known each other for what seems like forever, but it's only been 3 years. We met at my previous job and while we don't see each other or talk every day, I know she's got my back 100000% because I've got hers. We've experienced a LOT in the last 3 years, including but not limited to big life events and loss. She's always there when I need life advice, and often knocks me back to reality. She's my Lobstah (inside joke), and I can't wait to see what the future holds for both of us! More truffles, more summer night fires, more sing alongs in the car while attempting the choreography. My soul sister, my life coach, my closest confidant. 

BFF #2: I have only known her for a year and a half, but she's become one of the closest people in my life. We suffered through many a workout together, and never once let the other quit. Conversation was never less than hilarious, and there were plenty of jokes to go around. She always has a way of making me laugh (she did just get a new puppy, so sending those snaps my way make for a solid day!), and always listens when I need an ear. I miss working out with her now that she's living in west oshkosh, but we'll get together again soon! 

BFF #3: I have known this girl for 11 years. We survived living together for a year then still made time to see each other all the time. Rightfully so, she DOES have one of the SWEETEST little babies (who my mom and I are obsessed with.. no shame) that Auntie Kat LOVES to visit with. She's seen me through my darkest times (legit), my major highlights, and has never ONCE judged me for my life choices. We got super close because we were being played by the same man - who thought he could fool two of the best social media investigators around. HAH - joke's on you dude. We may not see each other as much as we would like, but when we do, it's like we never left each other. I'll always be Snuggle Bear :) 

BFF #4: When I think back to my childhood, she always seems to have a part in it. We started in girl scouts together as children, and when I was a freshman in high school, she was a senior. I walked in with a great life long friend looking out for me! After high school we still stayed in touch, but she went off and travelled for work (after getting her bachelor's in nursing!). Once she was home for good, we started monthly dates. Since she got married and finished her masters (again in nursing!!), we've been trying to find time to get together. She's always supporting me (as I have her - and she knows it) and giving me life advice - I'd be so lost without her! 

BFF #5: I don't get to see this girl near as often as I like, considering she lives over 1,000 miles away. But when we do get a few minutes to catch up, you'd think we'd only seen each other the day before. She's one badass chick, holding down her fort with 2 babies and taking care of herself as well. She doesn't give herself enough credit - because both her beautiful girls are so intelligent, so well mannered, and that's all thanks to her. I am hoping to get down to visit her within the year, so we'll see how things go! 

Yes, these are only 5 people that I call my best friends. I have a few others that, as I mentioned, will be highlighted in another post later this month. 

This tribe is the most incredible, diverse group - always supporting myself and those around them while also taking care of themselves and living their best lives. There's never drama or arguments - and if there's a disagreement, it's handled in the moment. There's no hard feelings, no resentment - our relationships are unique in their own rights, and so incredibly valuable to me. 

Thank you for being you, friends 💕